Your Best Guide to Pursuing Surrogacy in Delaware

For individuals and couples dealing with infertility, or other obstacles to conceive a baby, surrogacy is one good way to realize their dream of having a family. But as rewarding as surrogacy is, it can be a mentally and emotionally tasking process, especially if you are doing it on your own.

For over 20 years, Physician’s Surrogacy has been helping prospective parents in Delaware and all around the United States to create their families. We have developed this guide to explain the things you need to know about completing surrogacy in Delaware, including the costs, the process involved, how to find a surrogate and more.

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What is Gestational Surrogacy?

Gestational surrogacy is a common type of surrogacy arrangement in which the woman who is carrying the pregnancy (the surrogate) has no genetic connection to the baby in her womb. It is also known as host or full surrogacy. In this case, the embryo is produced using the eggs and sperm from a donor or the prospective parents.

Once created, the embryo is placed into the uterus of the surrogate mother, who carries the child to term.

Since the surrogate mother has no genetic ties with the baby, gestational surrogacy is less legally complicated compared to traditional surrogacy.

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What is Gestational Surrogacy?

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Why Consider Gestational Surrogacy

Intended parents have different reasons for using a surrogate mother. Here are some instances when people may decide to have a baby through surrogacy:

Women who are unable to carry a pregnancy due to uterine abnormality, repeated IVF failures, delayed parenthood etc.

Intended parents who want to avoid transferring a genetic disease to their offspring

Heterosexual couples who are finding it difficult to become pregnant

LGBTQ+ people who want to have a genetically related baby


Is Gestational Surrogacy Legal in Delaware?

Yes, surrogacy is allowed in Delaware. In fact, the state has clear and well-defined laws regulating surrogacy, which makes it a safe place for people looking to become parents through surrogacy. The surrogacy laws in Delaware outline the requirements that the intended parents and surrogates should meet and how a surrogacy contract should be drafted.
It is very easy to establish the parentage of a child born through surrogacy in Delaware.
Whether or not they are genetically related to the baby, intended parents can obtain pre-birth orders, which declare them the legal parents of the child.

However, if pre-birth orders cannot be obtained in their surrogate mother’s state, the parents may need to consider adopting the baby after birth. LGBT couples and individuals are treated the same as heterosexual couples in Delaware.


Surrogacy Cost in Delaware

Intended parents can expect to spend between $120,000 and $160,000 to complete a surrogacy journey in Delaware.

Note that each surrogacy journey is different and hence the expenses may vary based on:

Since each surrogacy journey is different and surrogacy costs vary based on many factors, it is best to schedule a consultation with Physician’s Surrogacy to get all the details before getting started.

Right Surrogate

Finding a Surrogate Mother

One of the most important and exciting steps in the surrogacy process is finding the right surrogate mother. Whether you are looking for a surrogate on your own or with the help of an agency, you should take time to determine what’s most important to you in a surrogate. Doing so will make it easy for you to choose the ideal surrogate or know whether the agency has offered you a good match.
Physician’s Surrogacy works with many surrogates in Delaware and can help you find one that meets your criteria and needs. To achieve this, we will first ask you to fill out an intended parent profile, which will allow us to know the kind of person you are, your surrogacy goals, preferences, and expectations.
Below are some criteria to consider when looking for a surrogate mother in Delaware:

Is she a good legal fit?

Each state in the US has its own laws concerning surrogacy, and surrogacy requirements and regulations vary from one country to another. Hence, our legal team makes sure the surrogacy laws in the surrogate mother’s home state are in line with those of the intended parent’s home country/state.


Do the surrogate’s personality and expectations match with yours?

Intended parents and surrogates will have phone calls or physical meetings with the Physician’s Surrogacy team to determine their personality regarding surrogacy. We also consider both parties’ expectations and hopes for the surrogacy journey, including the number of embryos to transfer and the kind of communication they prefer.


Do you have the same views on pregnancy termination and selective reduction?

It is important that both parties have the same opinion regarding pregnancy termination and selective reduction. At Physician’s Surrogacy, we make sure to match intended parents with a surrogate that has the same views as them in case there’s a need to selectively reduce or terminate the surrogacy pregnancy.


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Benefits of Pursuing Surrogacy in Delaware With Us

Accelerated Timeline

With the largest surrogacy program in the US, our hopeful parents don’t have to wait a long time before beginning their journey. Our comprehensive service model also enables us to lower the average time of a surrogacy journey by 200% or even more.

Strict Surrogate Screening and Selection

Our selection standards are way stricter than the standards put out by the FDA. Before intended parents pay for the surrogate’s medical screening and travel expenses, potential surrogates are required to undergo preliminary diagnostic screening to make sure they are physically ready and committed to the process.

This often includes basic medical screening, a background check, psychological evaluation, and a medical records review by a qualified OB physician.

Physician Monitored Pregnancy

One of our doctors will monitor the surrogate mother and baby through reports and interaction with their obstetrician and IVF expert. We will then send comprehensive reports to the intended parents, who can talk to our in-house doctor directly if they have any concerns.

Clear Legal Guidelines

Both the surrogates and intended parents will have a lawyer who will represent them during contract negotiation to prevent conflicts of interest. Besides, the surrogacy contract will contain clear terms and guidelines for both the intended parents and surrogate mother.

Our independent legal counsel will also help establish the baby’s parentage and have your name included in the birth certificate.

Dedicated Personal Support

Since each party’s needs may be different, we provide intended parents and surrogates with 4 distinct support teams, who will work together to ensure a favorable outcome for everyone involved. Intended Parents and Surrogates will both have dedicated case managers to personally support them through every step of the way.


Financing Surrogacy Journey

Using personal savings can be a great option since you’re not adding debt. We recommend setting up a special account for your journey similar to how you would for college, a new home, or a vacation.
Using your 401k can be a quick and easy way to secure funds for your surrogacy journey. If you decide to go this route, make sure to factor in tax consequences and rules when making withdrawals. You can have a look at past jobs and see if there is money in a 401(k) plan that you have not “rolled over.” It is also a good idea to speak with your HR representative before considering this option.
There is an increasing number of employers who cover all or some costs of the surrogacy journey. If your employer doesn’t cover surrogacy, they may have benefits for your surrogate’s IVF. Reach out to your HR representative if your employer is one of them.

Physician’s Surrogacy is a proud partner of Carrot.

There are many organizations that want to help you build your family through surrogacy by helping to finance your journey. These organizations provide non-repayable grants for those who meet their qualifications. Below are some organizations listed, that ease the financial burden:

  • Pay it Forward Fertility Grants
  • Baby Quest Foundation
  • Tinina Q. Cade Foundation Family Building Grant
  • Family Formation Charitable Trust (AARTA)
  • Journey to Parenthood Grant
  • Life Grants
Some Intended Parents choose to make their surrogacy payments through a credit card. You can request either a personal line of credit from your bank or an increased limit on your credit cards.
This a great option if you have equity in your home or other properties. Your property secures the loan, making the interest rates more reasonable.
Many of your close friends and family would love to see you become a parent. Often parents or grandparents want to help but don’t know the best way to support you. This may be an opportunity to ask for financial support.
We have chosen to partner with CapexMD, the specialist in fertility financing. With simple, unsecured financing, CapexMD offers the most competitive funding for surrogacy and related costs in the industry


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